Tuesday, February 25, 2014

VALENTINE'S DAY TRADITION

Who doesn’t love a great Valentine’s Day … full of special feelings for that certain someone.  The hubby and I started a tradition years ago, and continue it to this day.  And that is seeing the one and only SteveTyrell at Catalina Jazz Club in Hollywood.




While certainly not a household name, Steve Tyrell is well-known to fans of Nancy Meyers' movies (Father of the Bride, Something's Gotta Give) for providing some wonderful songs ("The Way You Look Tonight") that he has performed in these films.  That is where I first became a devoted fan, and have probably seen him 10 times as of now.  

While Steve performs in larger venues, Catalina is ideal for an intimate setting.  The food is good, the sound is excellent, and the performers mingle among the tables at times.  Some of the tables are pretty much right at the stage so one feels as though the performance is in your own home.  Even with it actually being on Valentine's Day, one doesn't feel so rushed and crowded as with so many other places on that particular day.

Steve was given the prestigious honor of replacing the great Bobby Short at the Carlyle Bar in New York, and is there every year from Thanksgiving through New Year's.  Good news for those of us seeing Steve here in L.A. is that it is practically a bargain compared to the prices in NY!

Some other places that are similar here in Los Angeles -- smaller setting, food and some great music -- Vibrato Grill in Bel Air (owned by the iconic Herb Alpert) and Cafe Cordiale in Sherman Oaks.  A few other clubs are listed here.


TO SHARE OR NOT TO SHARE? THAT IS THE QUESTION ...

At what point does sharing about your travels morph into bragging?  I mean, if your intentions are truly such that you want to share with others the joys of a gorgeous venue or delights of a superb meal so that they too might partake, does that constitute boorish behavior?   I think not … but then again  ...


Can anyone remember back to a pre-Facebook time where we shared our travels?  I guarantee it was to a much smaller audience.  My travels were initially recounted to my mom via email with attached photos (she traveled vicariously with me), who then forwarded everything to the family. That then became a Shutterfly website where I invited people to share in the trip, which then a couple of years ago became this blog. I still use Shutterfly to do my photo b books after every major trip, and it is easy and great. How did anyone share before Facebook, Tumblr and all the other social media sites? Maybe, just maybe, sharing about one's travels is now considered bragging by some because it is so public.




Mark Schatzker, a freelance writer and frequent contributor to Conde Nast Traveler, wrote about his own ideas in an article last fall.  His comments are below followed by my thoughts.  What are yours?  




  • DON’T tweet about fabulous meals. Ever. Not even if René Redzepi himself breaks into the Abruzzi villa you rented to serve you a white truffle omelet in bed made with eggs he laid himself. It sounds like you’re bragging. Because you are.
Rene Redzepi is the owner/chef of Noma in Copenhagen, consistently ranked as one of world's top restaurants.  If he comes to cook for me, I'm going to write about it.  But I don't tweet. 
  • DON’T make it about you. For example, if you somehow score a tour of a Bordeaux winery that hasn’t opened its cellars to the public since the days of the Holy Roman Empire, do not begin your tweet/Facebook post with "OMG, I just…"
If I've ever used "OMG" in my blog, it is hereby withdrawn -- so I totally agree.  But I would write about this experience but from the standpoint of the unique wines either seen or tasted.
  • DO make it about people. If, during said tour, the head winemaker mentions that Robert Parker got it wrong and the best vintage is, in fact, 1984, by all means, share this pertinent and interesting tidbit.
Some of the best memories are always about new acquaintances and encounters.  Tour guides rate special mention and I always includes photos of them and send them the blog in which they are featured.
  • DON’T go big-game hunting. If you find yourself sending out the social media equivalent of a press release as you knock off your top-25 list of Asia’s most exclusive restaurants, boutiques, and galleries, ask yourself: Do I travel because I yearn for a deeper understanding of the human condition? Or am I just trying to impress my friends?
I agree on this.   Even if that happens to be part of my activities, I wouldn't share that.  I recently talked about going into every store on Madison Avenue but never revealed about any purchases ... because there weren't any!  And I wouldn't say if there were.  That is where I draw the line  ... and because the hubby might not know about it.  


Never have something coming out of a head!
  • DON’T post mediocre photos. Are you interested in seeing other people’s average vacation snaps? They’re not interested in yours.





AMEN to that!! Even if you want to share, don't give in to temptation when the takeaway will only be that you're a mediocre photographer.  Check out some great tips for digital photography here ...


  • DO post great photos. A stunning image can pierce the wall of bitterness, resentment, hostility, and envy that stands between you and your non-traveling friends back home and can genuinely convey the wonder of travel. Great photography conquers all. You might even be inspired to host a slide show.
DITTO to that one ... except the part about the slide show.   

About getting that great photo to share, be careful!  I was so fixated on getting a particular photo at a museum in Amsterdam that I missed the last step on a flight of stairs and ended up limping through the rest of the trip... 

My thoughts on sharing are these:   I feel enormously grateful to have the opportunity to see the world.  I want to share that with others ... I love that there are those who find my travels interesting enough to continue reading this blog so I promise to continue finding worthwhile content to share! Forthwith, three favorite photos from pre-blog travel ...


Bruges, Belgium 2009

Featherdale Animal Park, Sydney 2010

Endless Tulips at Keukenhof Gardens, outside Amsterdam 2009


Sunday, February 9, 2014

SAN FRANCISCO ... "OPEN YOUR GOLDEN GATES"

Which is the smarter and more economic choice:   Let the remaining funds in your Southwest account expire, or use the funds but spend  even more money by taking a trip somewhere?  In other words, do I spend more money to save the unused $200? Hmmm, that is an interesting question.

Well, I hate to see anything go to waste, so a short trip was planned to San Francisco over MLK Weekend. The said funds got gobbled up with the new flight reservations. Now it was time to find yet another hotel room while trying not to ratchet this up into a "do we really need to take another trip" expenditure -- if travel could ever be considered as such.      

Over the Bay Bridge and into the city with perfect weather
In the quest to find accommodations, some interesting things occurred. Since I have points with two hotel loyalty programs (Marriott, which includes The Ritz Carlton, and Starwood),  I will go first to those sites and see if there is a property that works for my criteria.  Having previously stayed at the SF Ritz Carlton, and having points in my account, I decided to mesh the two.  And bingo -- I received a confirmation that was, in hindsight, probably too good to be true:  2 nights in a Club Level King for points plus a grand total of $230. Who wouldn't want to go for that?   

Nearly a month later, and 5 days prior to departure, I was alerted via email to the fact that the points in my account were insufficient to cover this stay. Now why wasn't that indicated at the time of booking?  After all, when you book a flight with miles or points,  all fees and taxes are due at the time of booking. After telling the hubby we weren't staying at the Ritz after all (that wasn't a good thing), followed by numerous phone calls to central reservations, here's what I learned: This particular program allows members to earn the points needed up to a certain pre-stay deadline, and then you need to pony up.  If you don't have the necessary points, you may purchase them at that time.  

So now the cost of this trip has really started to climb ... I won't bore you with the details but, because of some "courtesy" points awarded after climbing up the management chain until a satisfactory resolution was achieved, we used points for one night and booked a standard room for the next (the additional $$ for the Club Level just didn't make sense in this scenario). And after a nice chat with the hotel G.M., of course the internet was comped ...


Tuna & grapefruit salad
Upon landing, it was straight to lunch at Chez Panisse in Berkeley for our usual fix, which was as delicious as ever.  Our companions were niece (with hubby) & nephew Bialosky (all East Bay residents), who kindly furnished transportation from Oakland to Berkeley and even into SF.   That was a treat as we got to spend more time together. 


Seafood entree

Most delicious mix of ingredients in this pizza

"Pink Lady Apple & Sour Cherry Galette with Honey Ice Cream"
(description taken straight from the menu!)


After checking in and then browsing around Union Square, we were off to a terrific dinner at Michael Mina. I instantly thought the restaurant looked familiar; indeed, we had been there in its former incarnation as Aqua.  Not to mention it is next door to another SF fave, Perbacco.  A sampling of "smaller" starter courses were all unique and quite delicious.  The absolute killer was the amuse, a tiny triangle of a grilled cheese sandwich with a taste of amazing of leek soup.  
Chef's offering described above; YUM.


















Top: Shabu Shabu; Center:  Veal Ravioli with Cauliflower;
Bottom:  Seafood Risotto


At the end of the meal, we had a lengthy chat with the manager, a young gentleman of Korean descent, who shared with us that his parents were having trouble coming to terms with his career choice in the hospitality industry ("what do you mean you're not going to be a doctor?!"). Given that many of his college friends are still unemployed, there was a lot to be said for his opportunities. He was obviously well trained, as there was an email awaiting us by the time we got back to the hotel, thanking us for dining at the restaurant and inviting us to let him know if we intended to try another in the Mina group.  Smart young man ... 



Nice way to start the day ..


Here's something else to ponder:  Is it better to plan out all the activities and eateries in advance so as not to miss anything, or simply go with the flow? I was absolutely delighted with the outcome of spontaneity the following day.  A nice (downhill) walk brought us to the Ferry Building -- well known for the thrice-weekly Farmer's Market -- but also open daily with some wonderful shops and restaurants.   We had lunch at The Slanted Door and this is a gem. With gorgeous water views on this perfectly clear day, we enjoyed their inventive Vietnamese food -- even managing to mostly avoid cilantro, ubiquitous in this cuisine, but at the top of my dislike list.






Counterclockwise from top:
Chicken soup; ahi tuna; jicama/cabbage/grapefruit salad; 
Strauss Creamery swirl








From there it was all the way across town to Golden Gate Park and the Fine Arts Museum of San Francisco for the next-to-last day of the amazing David Hockney exhibit.  Fortunately I bought these tix online the night before as the exhibit was nearly sold out for every 15-minute time slot, and it was packed. Read all about this remarkable show, especially the video presentations.  Wow!







Back to the hotel to watch most of the game that was electrifying the city .. well, at least until the disappointing outcome for the local folk.  That would be the SF 49'ers failing to make it to the Super Bowl by losing to the Seattle Seahawks.  (I guess those in the know weren't surprised at the ultimate outcome on Feb 2, where Seattle proved to be quite the superior team this year).  We walked from our hotel to Little Italy for a good but not great dinner at North Beach Restaurant, and were just about the only patrons for the first half hour.  At that point the place filled up with one after another long face.  Alas, their dreams of a second consecutive Super Bowl appearance were dashed. As hardcore L.A. (Dodgers) fans, we decided to keep our glee to ourselves (gloating is so tacky). The walk on Stockton Street was most interesting, where the culture literally changes in the space of a 4-way stop at Vallejo Street, from Chinatown to Little Italy .. from steamed buns to raviolis!

Another gorgeous day, another walk, another lunch ... and it was back across the bay via Bart to Oakland to Burbank.   A short hop and a most fun couple of days.